If you are not feeling good about yourself it is very difficult to attract positive circumstances and fulfilling relationships.

Rose Quartz is a stone for those who are unable to experience the joy of living because they never had love given to them.  It is for people who have not experienced the true essence of love and are therefore unable to access the inner realms of the heart.  Being an important member of the Quartz family, Rose Quartz inherits dynamic intensity and healing power.  In addition, it manifests a calm vibration of soft sweet pink.

Often when children are reared they do not receive the love and nurturing that is vitally necessary in the development of a positive self-image.  Children suffering from this type of deprivation grow up with attitudes about themselves and about life that perpetuate their feelings of loneliness and worthlessness. As adults, they will often be unable to provide love and support to their children and the vicious cycle will continue.  Unless a deep inner healing takes place and these primal imprints are erased, there is little chance for inner peace or true happiness.

Wearing or carrying a piece of Rose Quartz will gently penetrate into the inner chambers of the heart chakra, where all emotional experiences are recorded and stored and its energy begins to circulate throughout the heart chakra, bringing inner nourishment and comfort.  This Rose Quartz healing process may take many months or even years to accomplish, depending upon the depth of internalized pain and the personal willingness to reprogram the heart.   

As the heart is nourished and healed from the Rose Quartz essence it becomes fertile ground for the flowers of love to grow.  As the gentle pink ray is implanted and infused in the aura, blossoms of contentment unfold and the true meaning of love can be known.  Only after first learning to give love to the self is it possible to truly love others.  Unless one is fulfilled from within they will always have expectations and disappointments from the love they receive from others.

Rose Quartz is the corner-stone for the heart chakra.  1ts energy is essential to self-fulfillment and inner peace.  The soft soothing pink of Rose Quartz comforts and heals any wounds the heart has accumulated.

The Process:

Always carry a piece of Rose Quartz with you or wear Rose Quartz jewelry.  Try to plan quiet peaceful times for yourself and/or be with people who are understanding and aware of  the healing crisis that is taking place.

Allow the tears to flow as you encourage the release of suppressed feelings. 

Practice the power of positive affirmations as you convince yourself how much you love yourself.

Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how beautiful you are.  Look right into your eyes and express your appreciation for all that you have been through.

Reprogram yourself as you listen to what you have to say and communicate to yourself your deepest  heart-felt secrets. 

Consciously fill in all of the vacant spaces and learn to trust yourself - and that no matter what happens - you will always be there for you! 

This type of self-love is the only  real basis for security.